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An Unhappy Child

Meaningfully occupied children are less likely to quarrel and
even go to bed in the evening more peacefully and happily be-
cause the day went by in harmony. Endless scolding gives the
child insecurity and dissatisfaction at heart and the feeling that
he has failed again and can never do anything right. Cleverly
distract your child from quarrelling and disobedience by
drawing his attention to something else.

Again: at home, when socialising, in the street, in school be
like a silent radar! Keep your eyes, ears and heart open. How-
ever, always in such a way that the child does not gain the im-
pression that he is constantly being observed. From the
child’s behaviour, language, conversation topics and conduct
you can sometimes quickly tell with whom he socialises. If
necessary, talk to his teacher.

Children Want Cheerful Parents

Parents, be friendly and cheerful. Stop nagging around – with
a long and stony face. When the child comes home, give him a
glance – a greeting – a friendly face. It might sometimes take
quite a bit of effort, depending on your health, worries and
ability to handle strain. A smile is free of charge. And really,
there is nothing faster to push worries into the background
than the eyes of children.

Of course, I may show sadness to the child when he has an-
noyed or offended me, but not for too long. I can also tell him
that I am very sad on account of his behaviour. Moreover,
mother and father ought to awaken compassion in their child –
for people, animals and plants. He should know that an ani-
mal, too, feels pain and can be sad – that also the plants and
flowers love to live and make us happy. This is a wonderful op-
portunity to point to GOD’s creation and His love. Most impor-

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